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Third Element of Relationship…


People say as you grow, you learn more about Life. You learn more about relationships. I too grew up and like everyone else, Life taught me too. Earlier, I thought love was the base of relationship. Then, I realized without trust, a relationship may take off. But it can never survive. But for the existence of a relationship, you need one more parameter: Time.

During the first year of my college Life, my friends and I had great fun. Only lamenting the fact that we were scattered and were very much apart (distance wise) but later on as we moved in the second year, we consolidated our location. We were just a few steps away. Indeed, it would be a better year.

I was wrong. It didn’t turn out to be better year or a more fun one. For the very reason that we just thought that we can talk with each other whenever we want now that we are so close. We could have but we never did. That was a big big difference. The distances (not in terms of km but within the hearts) began to grow. Our group was divided into factions. My friend is merely an acquaintance now.

Plant of Relationship

Plant of Relationship

Of course, some relations have the magic that whenever we meet again, after anytime, it would be just like old days. If you imagine the moment carefully, sitting in café, chatting about old times… Observe It’s the memories you gave time is connecting you. Moreover, the intensity is not the same as it was. The other person is changed, we have changed. Since none of us gave time, none of us has space for each other now.

My point is relationships cannot be considered to be an element of some romantic or friendship story based solely on Love. Relations are important, the threads in our Life and to maintain those threads, we need to give a little effort. Give a part of Life that is special and truly ours i.e. Time.

Take only an hour out of your week. Regroup, talk, conference call, pull each other legs, maybe go for a golgappe or chat, simply walk, anything but do it. Don’t ever make the mistake of taking them granted. One mistake you will look back with happy and sad eyes and term it as “those old days”, “the Platinum days”…

So, I think I should also call some of my old friends now as a very mysterious friend of mine said, “Gagan, you are guilty of not giving time to your friends.”

Only Rain isn't going to flourish them, you need to water also...

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Guest Post: Times are getting tough…


Its one of the creations of the most craziest guy I ever met in my Life… Kshitij Mittal … Why crazy?? Read his blog: Wikasta

I hope you like this poem..


Times are getting tough….and I need someone by my side…

Someone to cry with… Someone to divide my grief…

Someone to make me smile… Someone to be with…

Spring has gone….Harsh winter knocks….

And I need someone…

Someone to walk with, through the desert of life…

Someone to make it feel like a garden again…

I know there is someone out there…

Just waiting for that someone to come by my side…

For It’s only her who can make me… me again…

Times are getting tough…

The world is getting away from me…  and ‘m from it…

And it’s only her who can pull me out of the tempest…

I know we are connected…

For our souls can talk to each other …

I know you are out there… somewhere…

Times are getting tough….

Am waiting for you… come here…

From somewhere…

It’s finally the time… for us to meet!!

Blue Rose